When you go to a bar you don’t normally expect to meet someone famous, let alone a porn star.
I was out last weekend and ran into a famous male porn star just hanging out at the bar. I can’t tell you his name (I don’t have his permission to tell you who he is) but if you’ve seen any recent porn movies, you know who he is. He was visiting family and just needed to get away from them for an evening and have a few beers.
He’s a pretty cool guy and let me ask him lots of questions about his “job”. One question I was dying to ask him is:
“How do you last so long during sex when you are on camera?”
What he told me was pretty simple and shocking. The truth is that he only has penetration for 4-5 minutes at a time. The majority of the time he’s doing to other things to get his partner to orgasm. With all the editing they do to the scene it looks a lot longer than it really is. They use different camera angles to make it look like he’s doing it longer. He can only sustain for 5 to 10 minutes anyway. That was kinda surprising to hear especially since he has sex for a living!
He told me even though he has sex with lots of different women, most of them are pretty much the same when it comes to having an orgasm. They really don’t want lots of penetration to bring them to orgasm. It’s the foreplay and oral that they really like and what get’s them to come the fastest.
Like I said, it is pretty simple and shocking. There are lots of things we can do other than penetration when it comes to sex. I though about it for a while and came up with a few ideas:
Touching and hair pulling
Oral sex – duh!
Using finger more
I’m sure you can come up with your own list much longer than that. You can even ask your partner what she really likes. That’s a whole separate list on its own.
So, it’s not all about the penetration. Start focusing on other ways to get your woman hot. Actually, I sat down to develop my own list and I’ve tried several things on the list. I really recommend you do the same. If you want some of the activities I came up with that really work, I’d love to send them to you.